Purpose

• Time for attendants and families to relax and get acquainted with each other.
• Thank everyone for their involvement.
• Give out attendants’ gifts.
• Review last-minute details.
  
  

Planning
Book restaurants and private clubs well in advance or consider having the rehearsal dinner catered to someone’s home. While the groom’s parents often pay, you may want to help with the expense if you are planning an elaborate party. Set a budget and consider having guests purchase their own alcoholic beverages. Send invitations three weeks to one month prior (after wedding invitations).

Who’s invited?

• Bridal couple.
• Both sets of parents.
• Bridesmaids and husbands or guests.
• Groomsmen and wives or guests.
• Any ushers and other special attendants and spouse or guest.
• Any of your, or your fiancé’s, siblings and spouses and guests.
• All grandparents and great grandparents.
• Spouse of a divorced parent and step siblings if appropriate.
• Out-of-town guests who have arrived early.
• Your officiant and spouse.
• Musicians or other wedding participants.

Relax and enjoy this special evening full of excitement in anticipation of the day ahead. Just don’t linger too long. The wedding party needs plenty of rest before the big day!