Engagement party
Either set of parents, friends or the couple can play host. Traditionally, the bride’s father announces the engagement with a toast. The groom then stands to give a short speech and thank you. Engagement party guests are not expected to bring gifts. They should most definitely be invited to the wedding.

Bridal showers
Bridal showers are traditionally hosted by close friends or female relatives of the bride or groom or bridal attendants. Showers are not given by the bride herself, her mother or the groom’s mother.

Interests of the bride and groom should be taken into consideration when planning a shower theme. The theme should take the couple’s needs into account, especially if both have lived on their own and already acquired basic household items.

• Co-ed showers usually include joint gifts.
• A shower for general household items is appropriate if the couple is just beginning.
• Host two or more weeks before the wedding.
• Guests may be invited to multiple showers but not expected to bring a gift each time.
• Make absolutely certain that all shower guests are also invited to the wedding!
  
  

Bachelor party
The groom and attendants will have a chance to release pre-wedding tension, celebrate the groom’s final night out as a single man and spend time with close friends and relatives. A friend or relative of the groom (usually the best man) hosts. The party should be held at least a week before the wedding. Too many have almost missed the wedding while over-sleeping after a late night!

Bachelorette party
A close friend (often the maid of honor) may throw a girls’ night out. The bachelorette party should not be held the night before or during the week of the wedding. Guests should include only those who will be attending the wedding. Here are some ideas.

• Rent a limousine to chauffeur the group to favorite night spots and comedy clubs.
• Dress formally for an elegant champagne dinner party at home and play games.
• Go out to eat, share stories and relax.
• Get snacks and rent your favorite movie.
• Lunch and then get pampered at the spa.
• Be sure to have a camera with you.